Meet Heather_82: Calm control. Clear limits. Intense connection.

I like to lead. I set the pace, build tension, and reward true surrender. Direct, deliberate, and caring — I prefer control that’s precise, never reckless. I’m chubby, 43, single, non-smoker and sober. Brown eyes, patient hands. Consent, safeword, and aftercare are non-negotiable. If you crave structure, sensation, and a partner who notices the small details, tell me what calms you and what sparks you.

Power exchange, sensory play, measured impact, rope basics

Private scene: ritual collaring, measured commands, slow sensory escalation

Guided a nervous newcomer through a careful intro scene — slow, safe, unexpectedly intense for both of us.